Friends Forever...As If?

After getting through my second 4 mile run for the day, I thought much about friends. (What else do you do with all this new found energy but run again with a friend of course). I have been reminded by friends that some feel that they don't know where they fit. I believe that if you are here for my lifetime, you really don't need to find the fit you just are.

The reasons, seasons applies to this. Friendship moments come and go. At certain times we cling to those whom we need most. Running for me at the moment is a passion I can not go without,there fore I am cling to my running friends. But in no sense for the words should my walking friends feel at all slighted. Just because what was once so very importand is not now, you still mean the world to me.

We are in a constant change and if not we should be. Trying to figure out where we fit. What about if the fit has or is changing? Do we change to stay within ones own world? Or do we take the back shelf knowing that the importance is still there but growing is taking place. Sometimes it is not all about you. Equal sharing of the spot lite is needed. At times we think that friendships are forever and then with one quick moment they are gone. No need to get sad, a purpose was served, a lesson learned and they had to go. There are very few that can stay forever. Some feel that they can't take that back seat to the new, and they are gone. In some way my world was touched, heighted and enhanced. A better me because of you. But they still needed to go.

Forever Friends; you know where you fit~thats a good thing!