Looking back I have learned many things. One thing that seems to stand out today well last night is this...If you don't say what you want, how can you expect to get what you don't have? What is the worst that can happen...NO! Or maybe a yes!
Why do we think that people can read our mind? And then become sadden or disappointed that we didn't get what we where expecting. Did anyone even know what we wanted? It is funny how we have it all planned out in our heads of how things should go and then when they don't~was it a simple over site or just a "I had no clue that is what you wanted?"
Many times things would flow so much better when you clue people in. Let them know a little about what you are thinking or viewing in life. Put on the "blue sunglasses" if you will. Do you know about pink and blue sunglasses? I didn't until I read a book about the differences between men and women. Oh yea I knew we were different but didn't even think to figure out why. Men and women view things alot different~heck women and women view things differently. I use to be very narrow minded about alot of things. As I get older, I am beginning to except that there are more than one way to see things. Where did that come from? That darn growth thing again. Guess I losing some of that stubbornness. Not a bad thing. Asking more questions. Expressing more of me so that I will not be disappointed. I deserve the best. Don't we all? We only go around once. Are you doing what you want too? Are you happy? We all have a certain amount of TIME. Time to not assume. Because you know the saying...no one wants to be an donkey!
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