Thursday, November 20, 2008

Pee U

What to do when you know it is going to hurt the ones you love? Trying to make one understand that this is the best thing to do. Oh it is hard being a parent. Bring in pets that you know they want. I will take care of them. I will feed them. I will love them too. But when they are destroying all you have worked so hard for. How do you tell them they have to go.

At least if they die, they are sad but understand that it was time for them to go on. But just because they pee on things that is no reason to get rid of them. Or because they wake you at 330 because they are bored and want you up that is no reason. Well decision made and I am not the most popular parent. I didn't hear the "I hate you ". But I seen it in their faces. Hurt oh yes but I know it is what needs to happen. I have been dealing with it for a year now and the camel got "snap" I just pray that the hate goes away and they know that it is for the best. I know it is. I have known it for a long time. It sucks being a parent sometimes. I know also that this is a small piece of the pie. Small kids=small problems, bigger kids=bigger problems. Trust in the fact that it is all laid out and it all works out in time. Deep breaths again.

1 comment:

Omega said...

I've been there and done that and I understand.It is hard but it is for the best. Some of the tough side of being a responsible parent. love ya