When is the best time to reach you? What is the best line of communication should I use? Email, texting, calling on the phone (cell, or landline), writing you a note, stopping by the house or the place of work,or running along side of you.
There is so many more ways to communicate but less of it we are doing. Have we become so fast pace that we forgot that we are need a little "hey" in our lives. I am guilty of it too. It is not that friends mean less to us~they don't. Our worlds seem to consume all of us. When was the last time you called just to say hello? Not I need this and did you hear that.
We all seem to have the best time to be reached. But what if the ones you want to talk to are not on your time. Me that is easy between 5am-6am you can probably get my best attention. I haven't found alot of people who share that time with me. I have had to learn how to adapt to others and try to stay up in the pm to reach them. Adapting to others schedule to allow them to fit in yours. You will do that if they have become important to you. Understanding what they are going through and making it important to you, that can be a bit tricky but can be done.
Fitting in; once you do~do you always? If you are important to that person and you have made a home in their heart~fitting in is never a question. It is simply understood. I have many friends that have come and gone and come back again. Their residence in my heart is permanent and they can crawl back and stay as long as they want or need. It doesn't have to be invited it is just understood. Trust was made and that is a bond that will not be broken.
Trust another issue~blindly given or earned? One I have been pondering about and acquiring much data on it. Any way you can see that I didn't opt to clean!
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i took it in baby! gonna try harder, feel like ive been given xtra chances and not dropping the ball... thanks! i feel like this blog was 4 me... you rock! as always!!!!!!!!
HEY!! SOMETIMES THAT IS ALL THAT NEEDS TO BE SAID. SOMETIMES MORE FREQUENTLY, DON'T FRET.
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